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You're going to the gala. Now what?

What to wear while raising money and mingling with fellow parents

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Abby Arad
Feb 16, 2025
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Every school does some kind of fundraising event, usually in the spring. As they should! Anything for our kids and teachers, am-I-right? They range from costume parties to full blown black tie balls. So what’s a parent to wear??

This may contain: four women in black and orange dresses are posing for a photo with their hands on their hips

It’s a theme. FML.

Sometimes a theme is great, sometimes it’s a burden. If you’re not out here trying to source the perfect mustache for your Charlie Chaplin costume, then you need to take the ‘nod’ approach. As in ‘I saw there was a theme. My outfit is a ‘nod’ to said theme’.

Decades:

Buying something new to fit a decade costume? Please let it be something you’re actually excited to own, and will wear again (as my eyes go straight to the Gucci bag in slide 1):

‘70s

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